Struggling is no fun. I struggle financially, emotionally, with my marriage, with my weight. I figure though as I lose weight the better I feel. The more confident. I will be. After that I'm sure everything will just fall into place.
Sunday, May 6, 2012
I do fine then i dont
This really suck....I hate that I just haven't stuck with it....everyone I read they do so awesome and I'm so proud of them.... but I feel like a failure....when u see myself. I see a blob.
Believe me, everyone who wants to lose weight or has lost weight has been, or is, exactly where you are right now. It's what you do about it that will determine whether you lose weight or not. You are not unhappy because you're overweight, you're overweight because you're unhappy - does that make sense! Losing weight is not just about eating correctly. It's not just physical. It's mental too and you have to ask yourself a whole load of questions you'd really rather not and be 100% honest with yourself. You have not failed!! You are trying and while you are trying you are progressing, that is not failure! What support do you have at home with your weightloss? A local slimming group may be the way for you to go as you'll find people who feel exactly like you do. You're more than welcome to email me at any time if you want to rant or are feeling down or just want some motivation - I'll help if I can.
Take care Linda http://skinnygirlwhereartthou.blogspot.co.uk/
Believe me, everyone who wants to lose weight or has lost weight has been, or is, exactly where you are right now.
ReplyDeleteIt's what you do about it that will determine whether you lose weight or not.
You are not unhappy because you're overweight, you're overweight because you're unhappy - does that make sense!
Losing weight is not just about eating correctly. It's not just physical. It's mental too and you have to ask yourself a whole load of questions you'd really rather not and be 100% honest with yourself.
You have not failed!!
You are trying and while you are trying you are progressing, that is not failure!
What support do you have at home with your weightloss? A local slimming group may be the way for you to go as you'll find people who feel exactly like you do.
You're more than welcome to email me at any time if you want to rant or are feeling down or just want some motivation - I'll help if I can.
Take care
Linda
http://skinnygirlwhereartthou.blogspot.co.uk/